The success of a person is a by-product of the small decisions they made every day from their self-consideration. Hence, it is important to know the aspects of making good decisions to ensure it is the best one. So what are the aspects to make a good decision? Here are the 10 aspects:
1. Do not make the decision when you are TIRED - postponed the decision after rested because when you are sleepy, hungry, angry, or in any other emotional state it will cloud your judgment.
2. Free from SOSIAL PRESSURE - your family especially your mother and father have great influence upon your decision making, if you are already married your spouse will be your priority. Therefore, in this case, you can list out the solution to each problem involving family issues. For example, let say you will study oversea and been far away from family is the issue. So the solution is regularly video call and communicates with your loved one or plan going back during holidays.
3. LISTEN to your INNER VOICE - you intuitive always comes from your emotional request what you desire most to do and fulfilling it can be lead to self-satisfaction and did not let yourself remind it for the rest of your life or regret in your lifetime. Success needs sacrifice for sure and Great OPPORTUNITIES rarely comes.
4. Ask people opinions. consult different people and take the majority - Each person has their own point of view, some have undergone the process and some have not. So if possible ask from a different age of people and ensure someone that is honest and really wants to see your success such as your father and mother. You can ask expertise such as academicians depending on the chosen category.
5. PICK the choice that ADDS MORE VALUES - the values that I mean expand your life, not losing so much for example study oversea you are not losing your permanent job at the same time on going salary plus you adding valuable experience, skills, and STRONG ACADEMICS background if you pursue study at Prestage University abroad.
6. Take TIME Don't RUSH - set time limit, for example, you give 2 days to think if its for quick decision and a week for long term decision.
7. IDENTIFY which one is IMPORTANT - weight the criteria, list out the advantage and disadvantages the cost. Ensure your decision is in line with your goal.
8. ZOOM OUT - See yourself as other people, for example, it is like you advising your friend.
9. DECIDE wants or NEEDS? - satisfying both is the best.
10. Don't regret your choice - no point of regretting choice that you have made everything happen for a reason you should learn something. Nothing is perfect.
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